Pain and Happiness
I am good at adapting to new
environments. When I was in my hometown, Shenyang, in China, I always imagined the
view of Chicago and my feelings about the local customs. I confidently thought
I could adapt to everything as quick as possible. When I landed in
Chicago, I found the view of the city was beautiful and modern, which let me to
feel comfortable and happy. However, the most terrible situation which I
couldn’t adapt is that hot water is so hard to find in restaurants. It
is painful to start a new habit to drinking ice water. In other words, both of
these both experiences have given me a new perspective on living in this city.
Initially, the city view of Chicago
made me feel deeply amazing, which could give me bravery to live in this city.
Compared to Chicago, my hometown seems like a small village hidden in the
mountains. On the one hand, my hometown does not have any buildings as tall as
the buildings in Chicago, and l feel so impressed when I see the
city which is grouped up by so many tall buildings. On the other hand, Chicago
has a big lake, which is like a sea, but my hometown just has one river which is
not wide or large. I used to take a walk with my friends along the lakeside when
the sun was setting, and the view was so beautiful and romantic. The sky was
wrapped in a soft pink, and the light of sun was reflected by the water, which
let the lake seem like gold. The memory of the view of that evening is like a
soft wind which can always blow my soul. Both of the two views in Chicago
helped me adapt to the city quickly, and they still give me courage to explore
the city. In other words, the beautiful views made me want to live in Chicago longer
and adapt to everything even though I feel terrible at times.
Nevertheless, even though the city
view of Chicago is fascinating, I had a bad time adapting to one particular
custom -drinking ice water. The most terrible experience is that the simple
custom of drinking water has been hard to adjust to. A lot of Chinese people,
including myself, prefer to drink hot water instead of ice water. When I was a
kid, my mother always let me drink hot water and told me it is good for my
health, so l built up the habit. Everything changed when I came to Chicago. Although I could still drink hot water at home, whenever I went out and ate outside
with my friends, the server in the restaurant gave me one cup of water filled
with ice under my surprising sight. I can definitely say that not one
restaurant in my hometown only provides ice water, and many places such as
train stations, hospitals and schools provide hot water too. It is a struggle
for me to drink only ice water. Fortunately, my stomach has adapted to drinking
a lot of ice water, so I tried to adapt to this custom and built up a new
habit. I always drink cold milk in the morning and accept the ice water in the
restaurant, which is a new experience and start for me. In simpler terms, I am
taking my first step to the new world.
Regardless of the gorgeous views or
the new life habits, I can deal with them because I have a strong determination
to discover the world. At the same time, the new environment and custom can
give me a completely new perspective on living in a new world. These new
experiences could hurt, but they will ultimately cure me too. Like a storm that
uproots trees, the chaos may seem destructive at first, yet it clears the way
for new growth. I can feel the world by walking with my feet, but l also can
feel them in my heart. The new perspectives have helped me realize the world deeper
and wider, so l need to continue my experience regardless of whether the
experiences are good or bad.